This is the time that most writers (and you know, us wannabe-writers) sit back and reflect on the year as it winds down. So, in an effort to continue my aspiring writer efforts, I’ll do that today. No, you don’t need to go get another coffee, sandwich or bottle of booze. My life is pretty wrapped up in what goes on in my house, so this won’t take long. *Deep breath* Here goes:
While 2017 ushered in the most inexperienced, narcissistic, and immature President in American history, it said goodbye to the best President and First Lady that I’ve ever seen in my lifetime. I guess the stand-up comics and late night television hosts are happy that their 8-year hiatus has ended and they once again have gainful employment.
I got to continue my participation in hosting the Starry Night Prom. 2017 was our Tenth Anniversary Prom and it was a smash hit! I will always love this program, as it levels the social playing field for kids who tend to miss out on a lot of the high school experiences. We have already started fundraising for next year’s Starry Night Prom and are hoping to make it even better.
We lost several family members this year, including my favorite uncle and newborn nephew. We mourned their leaving us and embraced our opportunities to practice the patience that God blessed us with during these difficult times. Their memories live on in our hearts.
My second and third children graduated from high school this year. I cried doubly hard after I escorted my special needs daughter across the stage to receive her diploma. Mostly, I cried tears of pride and joy. But a few relief tears were flowing, that she didn’t cuss out the principal or yell at (too many) of those in the front row applauding. She doesn’t like noise, so this was really hard for her. My son, who walked across the stage just before his sister, was also grateful that she did well and didn’t embarrass him.
I lost my “eggplant”- my little 3-cylinder car. But my sweet brother drove up from Austin and gave me a Mazda SUV. What a guy! That car was the reliable transportation for nearly a year, in this family. But with the number of errands/carpools I have to do with all of the kids in all of the places, I was beginning to sweat from spending more time at the gas station than in my kitchen. Then my husband bought me a Hyundai. The men in my life are (and always have been) such a blessing to me. From my dad and my brother, to my husband and my three amazing sons, I know that I am loved.
My younger daughter was accepted to several fantastic colleges, complete with dean’s scholarships. She got to throw out the ceremonial first pitch at a Texas Rangers baseball game in September and to meet Matthew McConaughey. She also started a new job this year at a fast-food restaurant and her brother got a job at another restaurant. My oldest son made some hard choices about his health this year and is hopefully on his way to becoming healthier. My youngest son has come to some realizations about his future and is now considering more than just “gaming” as a career choice.
We have had some ups and downs, but we are grateful for all of them. Without one, we wouldn’t recognize the other. We need them both to give us hope and to keep us grounded. We’re overall happy. And for all of it, I am grateful. May your New Year be full of opportunities and good choices.